The Bravery of Opening Your Heart

Lucy Farmbrough
April 16, 2024
5 min read
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Lucy Farmbrough
Founder, Keel Mental Fitness
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"The brokenhearted are the bravest among us—they dared to love." —Brené Brown

In the realm of human emotions, love is undoubtedly one of the most profound and transformative forces we encounter.

It is an act of bravery to open your heart, to invite love in, despite the inherent risks it carries.

Brené Brown, a luminary in the study of vulnerability and courage, eloquently captures this sentiment, asserting that those who have faced heartbreak are the bravest among us, for they have dared to love.

Love beckons us to transcend our fears, to step into the unknown with hope and vulnerability. It is an intricate dance of joy and sorrow, binding us in its profound connection, yet capable of leading us into the depths of despair. The pursuit of love is a paradoxical journey, one that nurtures our deepest joys and exposes our most tender vulnerabilities.

Yet, it is in the aftermath of heartbreak that we often discover our true resilience and strength. Rumi, the celebrated poet, reminds us that our pain, though unbearable at times, holds the potential to become our greatest source of healing and self-discovery. A broken heart is not the end but a beginning, an opening to new depths of understanding and self-awareness.

‘Don’t get lost in your pain, know that one day your pain will become your cure’
Rumi


Brené Brown's research has shown us the necessity of embracing vulnerability as the cornerstone of meaningful human connections. Those who welcome vulnerability not only find deeper joy and creativity but also forge more authentic and fulfilling relationships.

True love demands of us the courage to be open and genuine, to share our innermost thoughts and feelings without reservation. This path of love is also a journey of self-discovery, a process of unfolding the many layers of our being, and embracing the complexity of our human experience.

At Keel, we recognize the complex dynamics inherent in relationships. Our team includes seasoned professionals who are adept in couples therapy and also skilled where needed, at guiding individuals through the intricacies of separation, ensuring you receive the compassionate support you need.

We have curated a selection of resources that span across various dimensions of relational experiences. Our commitment is to stand by you, offering guidance and support as you navigate the the journey ahead.



EXPLORE

Dive into Keel's Bookstore for a treasure trove of relationship-focused resources

LEARN

Engage with cutting-edge research and principles for healthier relationships through The Gottman Institute – A Research Based Approach to Relationships

Deeping Connections, Integrating Internal Family Systems and Gottman Principles for Healthier Relationship
Take this free Gottman Relationship Quiz

GROW

Take the plunge and dive into "Intimacy from the Inside Out" - a six month programme enrolling now, and learn how to apply Internal Family Systems principles to your relationships.

HEAL

Join the free Relationship Summit
Reconnect with Yourself, Heal from Pain and Learn How to Thrive Through the Power of Your Relationships
From the Founder of the Relational Life Institute, renowned Therapist and Best-Selling Author, Terry Real

DEALING WITH SEPARATION

Consider the 'Conscious Uncoupling' approach for a respectful and healing transition  
Connect with The Dura Society for support in navigating the complexities of separation.